1/28/2001
Bm called on kids' line. No answer for her cuz ss's downstairs eating
dinner, and my daughter upstairs is grounded from the phone.
Bm called a
2nd time, no answer.
She called our line. I answered. She was cordial, "I tried to
get hold of (ss) on his line, he didn't answer." I replied,
"Yes, he's down here eating dinner." She said, "Can you tell him please
to call me?" I said yes.
I told him.
He didn't call her.
She called back.
Ss comes downstairs while on the phone with bm, asking dh to help him
on the computer, trying to make it clear to his mom he's too busy to
talk to her. Dh said I'll help you after you get off the phone. Ss,
frustrated, waves frantically wanting dh to rescue him off the phone. Dh
refuses.
Ss left socks at her home. She won't mail them back. She's harassing
him to harass us in to buying him socks. He's downstairs a 2nd time
demanding we buy him socks, while on the phone with her.
I said, "We won't discuss this now." He gives up.
Afterwards, he comes downstairs to inform us angrily that he only has
6 pairs of socks and the court order requires us to supply his clothing.
He demands to see the court order. We refuse. We refuse to buy him socks. He can borrow
dh's socks until he gets
the socks from his mother's house.
He insists we buy him pants cuz his are out of style. Dh's looking
in to what ss needs.
Concerned Stepmom
"She" can be one too!
When you look at the deadbeat sites, ask yourself if you're
behaving like a deadbeat, and remember that men are victims of "her"
deadbeat mentality also.
